Carolina Sunset

When azure skies give way

to crimson, canary, gold, lilac, and fuzzy peach;

When cicada, cardinal, and mocking bird song subsides

The katydid, tree frog, and dove opus begins.

The pecan trees wave their flags and crepe myrtles toss confetti

Black against the brilliantly hued horizon.

The stars wink to life among the lightning bugs twinkling in their mason jars

And the evening air settles to a slow, sleepy warmth.

As darkness falls, the painted Carolina dusk drifts to sleep

Only to greet life again at the brilliance of the dewy dawn.

 

S. Street 8/26/12

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Lumping me in...

I've been lumped in with those I disagree with on so many occasions. Be it radically religious homeschoolers or militant atheists, I have been lumped in with the likes of both of them and just about any other category or stereotype. But here is the thing... I am not radically religious. I am not a militant atheist. I feel like I need to state what I believe so I won't be labeled as... As anything really. So here goes... I am someone who believes there might be a god out there somewhere. I think he might have created the universe billions of years ago with a bang. I think he might have planted the seeds of life here and there across that universe and that there is probably life all over our great big universe in varying degrees. I believe that life is a beautiful thing and that while I live it, I will make the world a better place.

I also believe that seemingly miraculous things happen, but I find them to be less about a person's faith and more about flukes in nature and probability. I don't believe that if a person "just has enough faith" miraculous things happen. I know plenty of very faithful people who don't get granted miracles and that if some god is able to choose one person for a miracle and not another then he is kind of a jerk. I also don't believe things happen for a reason or that some things are just meant to be. I believe a lot of life is coincidental. Sometimes good things happen, sometimes bad things happen. This is just how the world works, in my view.

I also believe that life is more often than not what you make it. Everyone has good times and bad times. But in the end, we are responsible for making ourselves and our world either better or worse. I believe in taking responsibility for actions that may negatively affect others. I believe in doing all we can to help others whether or not there is some eternal reward for our deeds (good or bad). Eternity is a long time and I am satisfied with the time I have here on this earth as the time I am able to make a real difference in this world.

I also believe it is important to make a conscious effort to approach life as positively as possible, even when I am sad. Finding an outlet for my sadness that will benefit others is important. I also believe a bad mood is occasionally inevitable and apologize in advance for it.

I believe in not begrudging others for their faith or their lack of faith. I believe that your path is your own and I will not try to convince you that my path is better. I will also try very hard not to belittle your faith even when I disagree. As long as you don't infringe on my right to believe what I feel is truth, I will not argue with you about what you feel is truth. However, the instant you do, I will kindly let you know it is not appreciated. I might express an opinion now and then. I might let you know why I feel the way I do, but I do not expect you to change your views. If you are out to 'win my soul', stop. My soul is my own and I will do with it what I feel is best. It is not to be won by anyone but myself. If you believe that damns me to eternal hellfire, I am very sorry you feel that way. I cannot connect your beliefs to anything akin to my own. If you wish to not be part of my life because of it, I feel that it is your loss, because I think I'm a nice person to hang with.

The juxtaposition of my beliefs and how I live my life are just as important as yours. Just because they are not your own does not make them invalid to me. It certainly doesn't make me a horrible person. Don't lump me in with my family members or my groups of friends or anyone else. I am friends with people from all walks of life and wear that badge with pride and I do my darnedest to make sure their beliefs are respected when I am around - even if I disagree with them!

Here is the kicker and if you've read this long, somewhat self serving post through until now, you won't make this mistake - don't assume I am something or that I believe something because someone I am close with voices their views. I might just believe something totally different. I am not my children, my husband, my parents, my siblings, my friends, or my colleagues. I am me. I am my own person.

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My "better than yours are" chicken nuggets

Ingredients:

5 chicken breasts cut into "nugget" size pieces. Trim any fat or tendons off so you don't get any icky parts.

1 egg

1 cup of milk

1/2 cup Greek yogurt

1 tbsp honey

1 1/2 cups Italian bread crumbs

1 1/2 cups Frosted flakes or if you like some cheery rainbow of colors crunch berries, fruit loops, or apple jacks crushed.

1/2 cup flour

Oil for frying or Pam for spraying before baking

 

Directions:

Place chicken pieces in a large zip lock with all liquid ingredients and shake and squeeze until all the pieces are well covered. In a separate bowl, combine bread crumbs, flour, and crushed cereal. Dredge the battered chicken in the crumb mixture a few pieces at a time. Place on a cookie sheet to "dry" for 5-10 minutes. Spray with Pam or oil and bake for 30 minutes at 350. Or Pan fry or deep fry for a less healthy "fast food" version of these.

You could also change up the cereal for some other healthier sweet dry ingredient like day old banana or zucchini bread crumbs that are baked a little to dry them out.


Pair with some Ore Ida Waffle Fries that have been baked, or better yet some sweet potato waffle fries!

Updated New Year's Goals

I made this post at the beginning of the new year and thought I'd let my reader (thank you for being my ever vigilant friend and fan, Susan) know how my goals are progressing. I keep telling myself that baby steps are best. I didn't enter TKD a black belt. I had to learn a front kick long before I was able to learn a twist kick and I have not "Mastered" much of anything as far as my favorite hobby is concerned. However, I have pushed myself hard and I feel I my skills are increasing and my body is stronger. The same can be said for these goals. I am working in baby steps to correct bad habits and develop some good ones. So here was my list of goals for the year:

1. Limit my fast food intake to once a week. This is a challenge because we are constantly on the go. I think that if I can do more ahead of time preparation, this will be a little easier. This has been challenging. We are down to once or twice a week with exceptions for social outings like our Thursday Night Pizza Hut Dates with our TKD peeps.
2. Limit Dr. Pepper and/or caffeinated energy drinks to 3 cans a week. I'd like to cut them out completely, but I just don't see it happening. I will make coffee at home instead which is a lot cheaper and probably healthier too. I am still addicted to Starbucks Mocha Double Shot energy drinks, but have cut back to a few a week instead of 1-2 daily.
3. Take my Vitamin supplements regularly. I wouldn't have to drinks so many of those coffee energy drinks with B vitamins if I were receiving enough B vitamins through the supplements already sitting in my cabinet. Haven't tackled this one yet... I need a vitamin patch as I can't remember to take a supplement to save my life!
4. Eat fresh vegetables consistently and daily. I buy them. I put them in the fridge with the intention of preparing them and eating them, and they rot, because we go to fast food instead. Done. I get 2-3 servings a day. I try to make a point of consuming veggies at least two meals a day.
5. Eat fresh fruit consistently and daily. (See 4) Done. This one is very easy to tackle during melon season!
6. Limit my red meat consumption to 1 day per week. Mostly done. It is helping that I discovered beef gums up my digestive system horribly.
7. Eat beans at least once a week. Once every 2 weeks maybe?
8. Eat fish at least once a week. I really dislike most fish... Reminder to buy some canned tuna. Tuna is about all I can tolerate.
9. Cook at home at least 5 days per week. Well... Mostly done, though not always inmthenhealthiest of fashions. I find myself wanting to buy convenient processed foods to cook and am trying to correct that mistake.
10. Decrease the number of Reese's Big Cups I eat. I will not set a number on this because I really don't want anyone to know (Except those down at Rick's Convenience Store) how many of these I currently eat. Down to 1-2 a week, unless I have PMS. Then I may consume a few more...
11. Eat only when I am truly hungry. Work in progress.
12. Do not eat past full. I'm trying really hard to do this. Sometimes dessert really calls my name though!
13. Enjoy fatty sweet foods as special treats instead of occasional meals. (see number 10) Hard one... Working on it. I am more successful with this the fewer I prepare processed foods and the more fruit I keep prepared and convenient.
14. Waste less food that I buy to stock my pantry and fridge. I am making concerted efforts to not grocery shop unless I need to! My pantry is getting to manageable levels and I have room for the many jars of canned goods we've made this year!
15. Find out how many calories I burn in a day on average. Hmm... Not done the research on this yet.
16. Worry less about how many calories and fat grams I take into my body and stop feeling guilty about it. Weight Watchers Online has helped stop worrying.
17. Consume more healthy foods that will give me energy naturally. I'm eating a lot more nuts, veggies, fruits, and lean protein, but this is still a work in progress.
18. Find out which foods are high energy foods. Nuts, avocado, berries, green veggies are my go to foods this summer.
19. Drink more pure water. (as opposed to things like vitamin waters) Done. Make a point to order water often.
20. Keep a food and activity journal consistently. Weight Watchers App to the rescue!!
21. Grow more vegetables and have the garden be the bulk of my spring/summer food intake. My garden has sucked. Fortunately, my mom's has had loads of surplus!
22. Visit the farmer's market more often. Every Tuesday!
23. Buy more local meat. Bad Steph. Not done.
24. Find out which foods I am currently eating that negatively affect my workouts and replace them with foods that will positively affect my workouts. Not done.
25. Make meal menus. Ugh... Nope!
26. Use the crock pot more often. Sometimes?
27. Eat less bread. Well, I've become fond of lettuce tacos...
28. Drink at least one glass of milk each day. Nope. Trying, and failing!
29. Worry less often and relax more often. This one may not be achievable for me...
30. Stop allowing negative body image thoughts into my brain - even during PMS. My muscle tone from so much Taekwondo is beginning to show finally and I my body really is looking better. I am focusing on not criticizing the things I can't change (like my well nursed nonsymmetrical boobies, my booty birth mark, random pimples, and the lack of symmetry in my nostrils) and working on the things I can - like my fat content, hair style, and muscle tone.
31. Dress up and "look pretty" at least one day a week. Once a month is a start.
32. Finish our school year by Mid spring so I can be outdoors more before it is super hot. Done! We already are back to school work for the hot miserable months!
33. Get outdoors more often - even when it is miserably hot/cold. I forget how hot it really gets during NC summers. But this fall should bring loads of fun. I'm moving my garden!
34. Give my body a chance to detox from years of fast food and fatty food abuse. Well... Not so much, but I am doing better.
35. Widen my palette and try new foods. This one is working well! I am eating a great variety of foods and trying different kinds of restaurants too!

So over halfway through the year and I feel like I am over halfway there. Prett good!